living in the past.. goodbye sadness?

"say goodbye, these days are gone.. and we can't keep holding on, when all we need is some relief, through these hard times.."

Every time I'm sad, i turn on my radio and this is always the first song i hear..
Is it a coincidence?.. Always a coincidence?..
Anyway..
This song helps me get through..
When I'm lonely, or just plain sad..
Usually, i feel sad when i get confused.. when I remember that I haven't REALLY moved on.. When I'm not sure if i feel anything at all..
If you want to move on.. or if you have a friend that needs to forget the past.. here are some tips:

-Don't talk to a certain person that is involved with your sadness..(like your ex,someone who broke your heart..)

-When problems are on your mind, do something fun to lose your focus on it.. like go out with friends, play sports, challenge yourself.. For me, I ride roller coasters to have fun and forget.. :D

-Cry if you want to cry, you can't keep the pain inside.. let it all out.. talk to a friend or someone who cares and will listen.. His or Her presence will let you know that someones there..(need to talk?.. herblog.unknownblogger@yahoo.com)

-Do anything just so you can't think of that certain problem.. some force their mind to remember, that's not really helpful..

-{if it's your ex..} his or her gifts: keep it away from you.. if it's there, you'll just remember..

-Don't listen to sad music.. don't make yourself sad.. create a happy atmosphere..

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Don't live in the past..
and remember this:

Do not repeat chapters, for the story never changes..
Stop wasting your time looking back! Focus on the present, and the near future..
You can do something better rather than being sad cause of SOMETHING THAT IS NOT THERE ANYMORE.. You're capable of moving on..

some people live their whole life being sad.. cause they can't move on..
Don't be like that.. You're capable of moving on..

summer!?!

im sooo bored with summer, wish it would end..
for most people, summer would mean....
shopping,staying up all night,textin all day long..
its a 2-month paradise..
but for me, summer isn't really fun..

stuck at home, no allowance, no cash for load, bored TO DEATH!,..
i just can't wait till summer ends..,
but there's still a few weeks left..

if you're bored to death like me, here's a few ways to avoid dying 'cuz of boredom..

• call your friends
-im sure they'd love to hear from you, and there are some people waiting for the phone to ring all day.. they just need someone to talk to, maybe you could help them..

• try blogging
-it's as simple as writing in your journal/diary.. you could write about HOW BORING SUMMER IS, you can even have a shared blog where you and your friends can write and share your thoughts.. you could say Anything You Want!! sometimes it starts as a hobby to addiction!!.. :D

• beg for allowance
-hey, teens need cash every once in a while..
though some parents aren't that easy to convince..
But!, when you do convince them, Go! shopping, hang out w/friends.. go and do something fun..

• find a hobby
-when i'm bored, i either draw, write a poem/haiku, play guitar or listen to the radio.. Try to find a hobby, some may take a while, but it sure is worth it.. Try instruments, art, or sports.. There's always something there..

• study, previous lessons, or something new..
-naah!, just joking!, if you do this you'll end up sleeping.. :D
though you could if you want to,..

• disturb your siblings
-really fun!..if you dont have siblings,try your cousins,neighbors, or just anyone you see!

• listen to music
• search on upcoming concerts near you
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even though it's not fun, you could always help or clean around the house.. throw away things not needed..you might even find some interesting stuff, like your long lost skateboard, a CD, a nice gameboard,etc.

well thats all i can think of
hope i helpd.. :)
thnx 4 reading!..

<=myst=>

why do some people feel gloomy when it rains?

i was sitting at the porch yesterday, thinking,.. daydreaming..
later on, the sky turned grey, and rain started pouring..
i just wondered, why do some people feel sad when it rains?..
and i just HAD to write about it..



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some people like the rain,while some hate it..
some seem sad..
but why exactly do they feel that way?..

have your own opinion?..
well i just had a conversation with some unknown people in messenger, and here's what they said..
• i miss certain people

• i feel bad when it rains because i remember some sad memories

• maybe they just feel lonely

• raindrops reminds us of teardrops..

• maybe they're sad cause they can't go outside,they're too lazy to bring
an umbrella.. XD

sometimes, when it rains, i also tend to feel melancholic..
i think, maybe it's because of the scenery, cause its not really good to feel bad in a happy, sunny day..

but here's what i found out earlier this morning..

Physically sunshine, in a complicated physical hormonal cascade, helps us to be happy by causing the brain to release happy hormones - serotonin among them. It's very similar to the hormonal changes. Some people are affected by SAD (seasonal affective disorder) experiences. Some people are affected by changes in light or the environment and some aren't --- emotions are very personal.

source: yahoo! answers

i dont get it.. haha..
but now i know what SAD means.. :)

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watch out for my next post!..
i just have to think of something to write about first.. :D

for any questions, suggestions or feedback
just send an email to.. herblog.unknownblogger@yahoo.com
thanx thanx!.. :)

-myst